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Is faking orgasms a problem?
Is faking orgasms a problem?
Faking an orgasm is when a person pretends to reach climax during sexual activity through vocalisation, heavy breathing and tensing the body. The need to fake orgasms has been attributed... Read more...
5 ways to try sensory sex
5 ways to explore sensory sex
Sensory Play is the act of engaging as many senses as you can during intimate moments in order to heighten sexual pleasure and deepen intimacy with your partner.   Benefits... Read more...
8 reasons to masturbate for PMS
8 reasons to masturbate for PMS
Self pleasure, managé a moi, or good old-fashioned masturbation. Whatever you call it, you may have been doing it a lot, or you're starting out giving self pleasure a go.... Read more...
The anatomy of a vulva
The anatomy of a vulva
We’re in the vulva business. We think they’re beautiful. But did you know that 56% of women can’t label all of their own genitalia when shown the anatomy of a... Read more...
A Complete List of Our 30 Erogenous Zones
A complete list of our 30 erogenous zones
When things start to get hot n heavy in the bedroom, most of us instinctively know the key spots to touch our sexual partners or for them to touch us.... Read more...
Sexual intimacy without penetration: the what, why, and how
Sexual intimacy without penetration: the what, why, and how
When it comes to sex and sexual intimacy, there’s a pervasive and annoying myth/idea/misconception that penetration (or penis in vagina) is the ultimate goal and source of pleasure. But ask... Read more...
5 Reasons Why You Should Give Scheduling Sex a Go, from a Sex Therapist 
5 Reasons Why You Should Give Scheduling Sex a Go, from a Sex Therapist 
Scheduling sex… Love it, or hate it?To begin, let’s make sure we’re on the same page. Scheduling sex is sitting down with a partner, or partners, to agree on a... Read more...
Postpartum sex: 5 tips
Postpartum sex: 5 tips
You’re knee deep in nappies. You’re beyond what you thought tired could be. You’re hangry. You just want to drink a warm cup of tea for once. You feel hungover... Read more...
Self love: Tips from our community to build a loving relationship with your body
Self love: Tips from our community to build a loving relationship with your body
Love yourself! Hate yourself! Be thin! But embrace your curves! No one likes a woman who doesn’t eat! But don’t be greedy! Call them tiger stripes! But don’t show them... Read more...
Navigating mismatched libidos in a long-term relationship
Navigating mismatched libidos in a long-term relationship
Mismatched libidos — they want sex you don’t, then you want it and they’re not in the mood. It happens to us all — even in the strongest long-term relationship. In... Read more...
5 tips for newbies exploring wax play with Melt
5 tips for newbies exploring wax play with Melt
Wax play and wax massage candles are part of a sensual form of BDSM (bondage, dominance, submission, and masochism) that involves dripping hot wax onto the skin to create pleasurable... Read more...
Basic intimate grooming: a guide for everyone
Basic intimate grooming: a guide for everyone
From brushing our teeth to keeping our bodies clean — we all know the importance of maintaining good personal hygiene. But when it comes to hygiene, there is one aspect... Read more...