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Why Christmas Kills Your Libido (And Why New Year’s Brings It Back)
Why Christmas Kills Your Libido (And Why New Year’s Brings It Back)
Christmas is sold to us as peak romance. Cosy nights in, fairy lights, mistletoe moments... Not to mention all of those romantic Christmas movies that will have you believing that if... Read more...
How to Buy a Sex Toy as a Gift (For Yourself or a Partner) Without the Awkwardness
How to Buy a Sex Toy as a Gift (For Yourself or a Partner) Without the Awkwardness
Buying a sex toy as a gift can still trigger that tiny pause.Is this weird? What does this say about me? About us? Whether you’re buying for yourself, for a... Read more...
Why pain and pleasure are so closely linked
Why pain and pleasure are so closely linked
We’ve all heard the phrase “hurts so good.” Whether it’s the burn after a workout, the sting of hot sauce, or a playful spank in bed,  sometimes pain feels… strangely pleasurable.... Read more...
Can you have sex while pregnant? Safety, tips, tricks and the best sex toys to try
Can you have sex while pregnant? Safety, tips, tricks and the best sex toys to try
Pregnancy is one of the biggest things to put your body through. It can also feel like the ultimate paradox too. On one hand, your body is working overtime to grow... Read more...
low sex drive women: what works and what doesn't
Low sex drive women: why biology isn't the whole answer (and what actually works)
TLDR: what we're talking about in this article 👇 Desire isn’t a switch, it’s a system. Hormones matter when it comes to low desire or low libido, but so do... Read more...
Best lube for every occasion | Your ultimate guide
Best lube for every occasion | Your ultimate guide
Curious about which lube to use? Don't worry, we've got you.  This guide explains why lube matters, the types available, and how to pick the best one for your needs.... Read more...
8 tips to take nude selfies like a pro
8 tips to take nude selfies like a pro
Whether you're late night sexting or keeping some thirst traps in your back pocket for later, there's an art to taking a nude selfie. If you're a newbie dipping your... Read more...
5 tips for giving the best handjob
5 tips for giving the best handjob
The words “dry handjob” gives me such a visceral response. Dryness has its time and place; like a good glass of pinot grigio, but definitely not a hand job. Best... Read more...
Kink vs fetish: what's the difference?
Kink vs fetish: what's the difference?
Kink or fetish are thrown about for just about anything these days. Plus as they’re both used interchangeably, it’s a little confusing. Does dating two guys in a row with... Read more...
Assessing your sexual wellness: a simple guide
Assessing your sexual wellness: a simple guide
Whether you're at the beginning of exploring your sexual wellness, or well on your way with your journey, it's important to take the time to check in and take a... Read more...
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What is Edging: Your Ultimate Guide
What if we told you there’s a way to make your orgasms even more intense? We can’t see you, but we’re assuming you’re shouting (or screaming?) yes! And edging is... Read more...
What is sexual wellness and why does it matter?
What is sexual wellness and why does it matter?
Sexual wellness is a term that's so hot right now. Take one look on social media and it looks as though sexual wellness covers everything from fingering to STI checks,... Read more...