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Sizzle in the summer heat: 7 tips to stay cool while things heat up
Sizzle in the summer heat: 7 tips to stay cool while things heat up
As we tumble head-first into hotter summers (thanks, climate change!), even the most intimate encounters can become a sweaty affair. But fear not, we’ve pulled together seven cheeky tips to... Read more...
Live, laugh, lube
Live, laugh, lube
Lube may be the centre of my universe. I’m not exaggerating here. In both my professional and personal life, lube plays an important role. It’s a key figure in two... Read more...
How vibration can help restore sensation and flexibility in scar tissue
How vibration can help restore sensation and flexibility in scar tissue
Our bodies are amazing at healing incisions and tears in the skin.After an injury or surgery, the body creates extra strong reinforced layers of connective tissue to bind and seal... Read more...
3 Tips for avoiding pressure on Valentine’s Day
3 Tips for avoiding pressure on Valentine’s Day
You made it through January. Congratulations. You’ve battled through the lofty expectations of a fresh start, along with the anxiety that comes skipping behind. Now, for February. The short and... Read more...
6 reasons why Gwen is perfect for frenulum play
6 reasons why Gwen and Bette are perfect for frenulum play
Let’s play a game. Close your eyes. What comes to mind when you hear the words ‘penile orgasm’? I’m going to go ahead and assume that you are currently visualising... Read more...
Have a penis? Meet your new favourite toy, Lennon
Have a penis? Meet your new favourite toy, Lennon
Over the last few years awareness of the Orgasm Gap has grown, rightfully shocking many. More importantly though, it has taken the pressure off those with vulvas struggling to reach... Read more...
Mutual masturbation: 7 reasons why you should give it a go
7 tips to try mutual masturbation
Let's face it. Masturbation is fun. It relieves stress, helps you sleep, and improves your relationship with your body. Plus it feels fantastic! What's not to like? Well, nothing in... Read more...
5 tips to build a happy relationship with your vagina
5 tips to build a happy relationship with your vagina
Knock knock, it's 2022 calling and saying we all need to have a better relationship with our vaginas. As according to Refinery29 research over 48% of respondents weren't happy with... Read more...
Having sex for the first time postpartum
Having sex for the first time postpartum
If I’m honest I was pretty scared to imagine what sex with my husband would be like after we had our baby. The culturally accepted wisdom seems to be: “Sex?... Read more...
Why you're still faking it and 3 things to do instead!
Why you're faking orgasms
Here is the story of how I started faking orgasms. It was an accident. I was 19 and I had just started having sex. One day after an alarmingly short,... Read more...
Battling dysphoria and connecting with your body sexually
Battling dysphoria and connecting with your body sexually
The reality of living with dysphoria* is that connecting with your body, full stop, can be a real challenge. We often struggle to find parts of our bodies that we... Read more...
Queerify-ing your language around masturbation
Queerify-ing your language around masturbation
We need to take a look at the language we use about masturbation.Traditionally, it has been heavily gendered. Rooted in a misconception that genitalia = gender identity it has excluded... Read more...