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Have a penis? Meet your new favourite toy, Lennon
Have a penis? Meet your new favourite toy, Lennon
Over the last few years awareness of the Orgasm Gap has grown, rightfully shocking many. More importantly though, it has taken the pressure off those with vulvas struggling to reach... Read more...
Mutual masturbation: 7 reasons why you should give it a go
7 tips to try mutual masturbation
Let's face it. Masturbation is fun. It relieves stress, helps you sleep, and improves your relationship with your body. Plus it feels fantastic! What's not to like? Well, nothing in... Read more...
5 tips to build a happy relationship with your vagina
5 tips to build a happy relationship with your vagina
Knock knock, it's 2022 calling and saying we all need to have a better relationship with our vaginas. As according to Refinery29 research over 48% of respondents weren't happy with... Read more...
Having sex for the first time postpartum
Having sex for the first time postpartum
If I’m honest I was pretty scared to imagine what sex with my husband would be like after we had our baby. The culturally accepted wisdom seems to be: “Sex?... Read more...
Why you're still faking it and 3 things to do instead!
Why you're faking orgasms
Here is the story of how I started faking orgasms. It was an accident. I was 19 and I had just started having sex. One day after an alarmingly short,... Read more...
Battling dysphoria and connecting with your body sexually
Battling dysphoria and connecting with your body sexually
The reality of living with dysphoria* is that connecting with your body, full stop, can be a real challenge. We often struggle to find parts of our bodies that we... Read more...
Queerify-ing your language around masturbation
Queerify-ing your language around masturbation
We need to take a look at the language we use about masturbation.Traditionally, it has been heavily gendered. Rooted in a misconception that genitalia = gender identity it has excluded... Read more...
Busting misconceptions around trans sex
Busting misconceptions around trans sex
Trans* people are often highly misunderstood in the world of sex. Our bodies being seen by society as ‘different’ and ‘shameful’ means that transgender people are often at risk of inappropriate... Read more...
Period sex: top tips
Period sex: top tips
Period sex. It really is the taboo of all taboos. But it can be a welcome mood booster in what may otherwise be a pretty shit few days. Plus, let’s... Read more...
Being held and bodily pride: What touch deprivation does to the self-esteem of disabled people
Being held and bodily pride: What touch deprivation does to the self-esteem of disabled people
Whilst it's true that many of us have been, and are, still unable to receive and give forms of affection we might previously have taken for granted. An experience known... Read more...
3 tips for a more mindful sex life
3 tips for a more mindful sex life
A disappointing fact that often have to share with folks is that my life as a sex educator and coach is probably not as thrilling and exciting as one may... Read more...
7 sex-related words to say out loud every day to get over your embarrassment
7 sex-related words to say out loud every day to get over your embarrassment
Let’s face it, sexual or sex-related words can be embarrassing to say out loud. Even when you’re in the intimate privacy of your own home or bedroom. What makes it... Read more...