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Battling dysphoria and connecting with your body sexually
Battling dysphoria and connecting with your body sexually
The reality of living with dysphoria* is that connecting with your body, full stop, can be a real challenge. We often struggle to find parts of our bodies that we... Read more...
Queerify-ing your language around masturbation
Queerify-ing your language around masturbation
We need to take a look at the language we use about masturbation.Traditionally, it has been heavily gendered. Rooted in a misconception that genitalia = gender identity it has excluded... Read more...
Busting misconceptions around trans sex
Busting misconceptions around trans sex
Trans* people are often highly misunderstood in the world of sex. Our bodies being seen by society as ‘different’ and ‘shameful’ means that transgender people are often at risk of inappropriate... Read more...
Period sex: top tips
Period sex: top tips
Period sex. It really is the taboo of all taboos. But it can be a welcome mood booster in what may otherwise be a pretty shit few days. Plus, let’s... Read more...
Being held and bodily pride: What touch deprivation does to the self-esteem of disabled people
Being held and bodily pride: What touch deprivation does to the self-esteem of disabled people
Whilst it's true that many of us have been, and are, still unable to receive and give forms of affection we might previously have taken for granted. An experience known... Read more...
3 tips for a more mindful sex life
3 tips for a more mindful sex life
A disappointing fact that often have to share with folks is that my life as a sex educator and coach is probably not as thrilling and exciting as one may... Read more...
7 sex-related words to say out loud every day to get over your embarrassment
7 sex-related words to say out loud every day to get over your embarrassment
Let’s face it, sexual or sex-related words can be embarrassing to say out loud. Even when you’re in the intimate privacy of your own home or bedroom. What makes it... Read more...
How to ask for what you want during sex
How to ask for what you want during sex
It's 2020, but almost half of women in the UK are dissatisfied with their sex life according to Public Health England.We get it. Opening up a very core part of... Read more...
7 myths about the female orgasm
7 myths about the female orgasm
*Please note: that we use male and female terms to refer to cis-gendered sexual anatomy. However, an individual with entire or partial female genitalia may or may not identify as... Read more...
6 reasons why you should use lube during sex & masturbation
6 reasons why you should use lube during sex and masturbation
For some reason, lube use during sex and masturbation has gotten a bad rep. It's seen as something you have to use when you're older, or if you're not 'wet... Read more...
Why we need to stop using the term “losing your virginity”
Why we need to stop saying “losing your virginity”
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4 things I wish I had known about vibrators
4 things I wish I had known about vibrators
Vibrators, sex toys, rampant rabbits, bullets. Despite the long list of names the infamous vibrator has and the fact that under 3 million of us in the UK own one... Read more...