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Busting misconceptions around trans sex
Busting misconceptions around trans sex
Trans* people are often highly misunderstood in the world of sex. Our bodies being seen by society as ‘different’ and ‘shameful’ means that transgender people are often at risk of inappropriate... Read more...
Period sex: top tips
Period sex: top tips
Period sex. It really is the taboo of all taboos. But it can be a welcome mood booster in what may otherwise be a pretty shit few days. Plus, let’s... Read more...
Being held and bodily pride: What touch deprivation does to the self-esteem of disabled people
Being held and bodily pride: What touch deprivation does to the self-esteem of disabled people
Whilst it's true that many of us have been, and are, still unable to receive and give forms of affection we might previously have taken for granted. An experience known... Read more...
3 tips for a more mindful sex life
3 tips for a more mindful sex life
A disappointing fact that often have to share with folks is that my life as a sex educator and coach is probably not as thrilling and exciting as one may... Read more...
7 sex-related words to say out loud every day to get over your embarrassment
7 sex-related words to say out loud every day to get over your embarrassment
Let’s face it, sexual or sex-related words can be embarrassing to say out loud. Even when you’re in the intimate privacy of your own home or bedroom. What makes it... Read more...
How to ask for what you want during sex
How to ask for what you want during sex
It's 2020, but almost half of women in the UK are dissatisfied with their sex life according to Public Health England.We get it. Opening up a very core part of... Read more...
7 myths about the female orgasm
7 myths about the female orgasm
*Please note: that we use male and female terms to refer to cis-gendered sexual anatomy. However, an individual with entire or partial female genitalia may or may not identify as... Read more...
6 reasons why you should use lube during sex & masturbation
6 reasons why you should use lube during sex and masturbation
For some reason, lube use during sex and masturbation has gotten a bad rep. It's seen as something you have to use when you're older, or if you're not 'wet... Read more...
Why we need to stop using the term “losing your virginity”
Why we need to stop saying “losing your virginity”
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4 things I wish I had known about vibrators
4 things I wish I had known about vibrators
Vibrators, sex toys, rampant rabbits, bullets. Despite the long list of names the infamous vibrator has and the fact that under 3 million of us in the UK own one... Read more...
Beginner's guide to buying a vibrator
Beginner's guide to buying a vibrator
Buying a vibrator? First time? Want a beginner vibrator? You've come to the right guide. Rampant rabbits, love eggs, internal vibrators, external vibrators, g-spot vibrators, wand vibrator, bullets, dildos…How the... Read more...
Everything you’ve ever wanted to know about period sex
Everything you’ve ever wanted to know about period sex
Just because your Aunt Flo is knockin’, doesn’t mean your bed (or couch, or shower) can’t be rockin’. While period sex has long been associated with a general ‘ick’-factor, we... Read more...